This is by no means a direct answer to your question, but certainly the most entertaining one you're likely to find!
https://vimeo.com/channels/204183/page:2This links to a small section of my synchromystic video work. There are quite a few important philosophical ideas regarding these "others" that you may wish to equip yourself with before you get sucked too deeply into the multitude of opinions and theories floating around...The two "EXEGESIS" videos and the 3-part series spanning from "PEACOCK SHOCK" to "MELEK TAUS ON RAINBOW ROAD PT 2" are likely to crack your noggin open in the extreme...
Ultimately, nobody else can tell you who your friends and enemies are, and one can easily turn into the other at a moments notice. "So you think you can tell Heaven from Hell?" Sometimes life's answers are more confusing than the questions...
But good luck in finding what you're after!